Ep. 15: What Umi Says.
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Season 2 has just ended, and we couldn’t have been more grateful to our guests slash friends who willingly shared powerful tidbits of knowledge around purpose.
In this episode, we revisit these empowering episodes to look back to the lessons we have learned and be inspired to make a difference in our own ways.
WHAT TO LISTEN FOR:
Revisit-worthy conversations with our power guests [2:55]
Jessica and the story of how she was fired and ended up beating an incumbent for the seat her mother held
Brandy and Mau and how they struggled getting accepted into different grad schools and programs but are now both doing fulfilling work
Onaje, who is a strong voice that educates our community about our culture
Flo, who didn’t have any plans right now, but is always curious and excited with the work she does as an advocate for people’s rights
Kenneth and Omar and how the secret to finding something you love is exposing yourself to new things
Shamiah and Jihan, who are courageous enough to bet on themselves
Powerful lessons [9:31]
The idea of a ‘calling’ vs. something you’re interested in
You don’t have to have things figured out from the get-go
Letting your purpose be bigger than your fear
The haze of finding purpose in the work that you do [16:10]
Betting on yourself can be scary
Being intentional with doing things that are important to you and continuing to figure things out
Working in an organization, you don't know how your words are going to be received. Will you keep your mouth closed, or speak up?
It is us that's driving change
There are so many things we have to fight against (but we also have folks who stand with us)
How we can take part in bringing change [42:45]
It can be as simple as spreading the word such as sharing a Facebook post
Understanding the impact that black leadership has
Showing support such as buying Black art
Biggest takeaways and lessons [45:14]
You can find your purpose by being open, being present, by being in the moment
Being authentic
Trust your gut—being uncertain is okay
Don’t compare yourself with others
Trust the process
Continue to bet on yourself, and you’ll be surprised with the outcome
EPISODE QUOTES:
I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna jump out there. And acknowledging how scary it was, but choosing to do it anyway, that's definitely a haze. Because sometimes you don't know how it's gonna be received.
- Scott Hayes
What I'm saying is that it is us that's driving this change. I think that we are in spaces where we need to begin to wear things that have flown in the past that are not able to fly anymore.
- Scott Hayes
It's gonna be okay. You will be fine. Everything works out for your good.
- Shaté Hayes
Trusting the work that you're doing, continuing to bet on yourself, and then eventually you will get to a place where there is a body of work in front of you or you have done the thing, however it looks, I think it's important to just not negate the fact that however it’s received, whatever it looks like, you were in the arena and you we're doing the thing.
- Shaté Hayes
RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:
Episode 7: Healing through history with Dr. Maurice Hobson
Episode 8: Caring for our community and ourselves with Jessica Green
Episode 9: Running your own race with Brandy Shavon
Episode 10: Becoming custodians of our culture with Onaje Henderson
Episode 11: Advocating for the health of our community with Flojaune Cofer
Episode 12: Community involvement with Shamiah Kerney
Episode 13: Mentoring our youth with Omari Henderson & Kenneth White
CONNECT WITH AND SUPPORT OUR GUESTS:
The Greenhouse Family Resource Center
The Legend of the Black Mecca by Maurice Hobson
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
Spotify Playlist - Music for this moment.
Follow @iamshate on Instagram
Follow @scotthayes_lcsw on Instagram
Clear the haze with our Weekly Word.
We’ll send you insights from our recent convos, book recommendations, resources, and more to help you navigate the unspoken hard parts of life.