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We used to talk about the hard parts of life. Now, we talk about the healed parts…because that’s where true freedom resides. Join us, and you’ll see that when you save yourself first, you transform your life, and you lead the way for those around you to save themselves, too.


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Ep. 65: Seeing Black love matters.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 65: Listen, if we hear ONE more person come for #BlackLoveDoc, it’s gon’ be a problem. With the recent news of Ms. Tina Knowles-Lawson’s divorce, commenters have been pretty hard on the show, calling it cursed because five of the couples featured have gone their separate ways. Well, we have plenty to say about that, and we got time today.

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Ep. 64: Who gets the benefit of your self-doubt?

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 64: We’ve all been taught that it’s a good thing to give someone the benefit of the doubt? It essentially means to assume good intent, right? But when it comes to self-doubt, that changes the game. Let’s unpack who benefits when we dim our light and play small.

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Ep. 63: Healing from the inside out with Oriola Esuleke.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 63: In today's episode, we tap into our local community with an amazing conversation with Oriola Esuleke. She’s the owner of The Kindred Healing Center, AHHA Consulting LLC (Aggregated Holistic Healing Alliance), and Principal owner of the first black-owned and operated social media wellness platform, the AHHA Wellness Community. Oriola is a curator of holistic culturally sacred self-healing spaces, so it's only fitting that we talk about what it means to heal from the inside out.

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Ep. 62: Sometimes, parents just don’t understand.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 62: We’re unpacking a topic that was submitted by one of our listeners. We’ve mentioned folks who’ve cut ties with family members because of unhealthy relationships, but we haven’t talked about maintaining a relationship with a parent when y’all just don’t get along. Well, until today, that is.

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Ep. 61: When self-care just isn’t enough.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 61: Listen, I don’t know about y’all, but for us, life has been life-ing lately. And it seems like at every turn, we’re pulled in different directions, faced with disappointment, and juggling really full plates. So join us as we process how to move forward when self-care just isn't enough.

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Ep. 60: What is family, blood or bond?

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 60: We know how complicated relationships can be. On top of the interpersonal connection, we're also contending with triggers, boundaries, expectation setting for how you need to be loved. And how does that all play out with family? ESPECIALLY when it's the family you're trying to build?

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Ep. 59: Whew chile…workplace trauma.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 59: We talk a lot about family dynamics, overcoming interpersonal offenses, and moving past stuck places in general. But what about trauma from work? That’s not something we hear a lot of people talk about, so it’s time to lay it all out on the table. Whew chile...prepare to be triggered.

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Ep. 58: Lopsided relationships collapse.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 58: About reciprocity in relationships. We’ve processed through matching energy, communication, and conflict resolution in other episodes. Now, let's spend a little time unpacking a different approach to unbalanced relationships.

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Ep. 56: Redefining Manhood: Getting support is the real flex.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 56: We’re challenging societal norms of manhood. Data shows that many men know that talking openly is an effective way of dealing with their problems, but they keep quiet so they don’t appear weak or unmanly. Well, we’re affirming that getting the support you need is the real flex.

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Ep. 55: SOS…Saving OurSelves.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 55: In this episode, we’re unpacking what it means to participate in your own rescue. You know the saying…you can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink. But when it comes to our healing and growth, it’s time to drink up, y’all.

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Ep. 54: The privilege to judge.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 54: In this episode, we’re talking about the choices we make based on the hand that life has dealt us. For those of us who’ve been blessed enough to have our basic needs met, let’s exercise some empathy and recognize what a privilege that is.

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Ep. 53: Bigger than my bottom.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 53: The bottom moments in our lives can be defining moments that forever change us, but they shouldn’t become what defines us. We’re affirming that we’re all bigger than our bottoms.

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Ep. 52: About facing fear.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 52: Fear is natural. It’s actually designed to protect us, but it can also be the thing standing between us and our heart's desires. Let’s talk about how to face it and do the thing anyways.

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Ep. 51: The lesson in the leap.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 51: We've always heard that we should take the leap of faith— no matter how scary it is. Just jump, right? Well, what happens after the leap? Fall. Flight. Sink. Swim. Let's talk about it.

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Ep. 50: Just keep going.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 50: We’re so excited to be starting the year with our 50th episode! The new year is typically the season for resolutions and restarts. Well, in true Love Haze fashion, we want to normalize something we don’t talk as much about…just continuing where you left off. Let's just keep going, fam.

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Ep. 49: A few of our favorite things.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 49: We’re closing out the year with a look back at some of our favorite episodes of 2022. From opening up about our fertility journey to convos about matching energy, healing our relationship with money, and so much more, there’s so much goodness to celebrate.

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Ep. 48: Mental health matters with Stephanie Westbrook.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 48: Been thinking about therapy? Then join us for a transparent convo with Stephanie Westbrook – Licensed Psychotherapist, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and founder and owner of Lotus Center for Counseling and Wellness – about how to get started and what to expect.

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Ep. 47: It’s giving….thanks.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 47: Join us as we express some gratitude for how far we’ve come on our journey. From family, to purpose, to personal growth, and so much more, we’re giving thanks for the progress we’ve made over the past year.

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Ep. 46: Forgive yourself. Period.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 46: Let’s talk about how we have a tendency to continue putting ourselves on trial long after we’ve made a mistake. We don’t have to keep paying for the same offense, ya’ll. It’s time to make a different choice.

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