Ep. 39: Can We Talk Pt. 2: Lost in translation.
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I bet we all want to learn and grow in our communication skills, especially in our relationships.
In this second part of our conversation, we delve deeper into the topic of communication and its role in maintaining relationships.
Let’s look into the importance of self-awareness, understanding different communication styles and love languages. We’ll delve into how these can contribute to misunderstandings and miscommunications. So, let's dive into the conversation together and explore how we can bridge the gap in communication and prevent things from getting lost in translation.
WHAT TO LISTEN FOR:
Different communication styles [1:21]
Communication styles are shaped by background and experiences
Understanding leads to stronger relationships
Knowing your communication style [7:06]
Promotes empathy and grace
Improves relationships by meeting halfway
Love languages and communication styles are different but important
Things that are lost in translation [10:07]
Norms that influence our communication styles
Expectations around how we show up roles in the relationship
The haze of translating different communication styles [16:32]
Self-awareness in communication is important
Assuming all communicate the same leads to miscommunication
Understanding perspectives improves communication
Approaching situations with an open mind helps avoid misunderstandings.
EPISODE QUOTES:
It is important to understand the expectations around roles in relationships or at home, which can stem from one's upbringing and love languages. These expectations can cause misunderstandings and lead to lost in translation.
- Shaté Hayes
It is very healthy to have conversations and disagreements and to be able to talk through things that we don't agree on.
- Scott Hayes
Now, we may be speaking the same English language, but we may not be speaking the same communication style and a commitment to translate.
- Scott Hayes
RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus
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