Ep. 75: Made for more.
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We’ve spent the last three years and change having some of the most cathartic, transparent and transformative conversations about stuck places, the hazes, and healing all parts of us. And now it's time for more. We believe what’s next is gonna blow our minds! Join us as we talk through that and two special announcements.
WHAT TO LISTEN FOR:
Knowing when it is time to pivot [5:08]
When a normal routine starts to feel uncomfortable
Feeling exhausted and burnt out
Pivoting doesn’t always mean knowing exactly what the next steps would be
The haze of pivoting [15:01]
Leaving your area of your comfort is a daunting pursuit
The older you get, the more there are at stake
Relinquishing control is a concept that is hard to grasp despite the reality that none of us ever really have it
Navigating the haze [20:42]
Getting used to the idea that things will not always go our way
Doing the right thing despite not seeing the desired outcome
Acknowledging fear but moving forward anyway
Biggest lessons surrounding pivoting [26:51]
You can pivot… and still not be irresponsible and reckless
Understanding that walking into your purpose is NOT pain-free
Made for more announcements and reminders [36:21]
Shaté’s participation in Rachel Rodgers’ business coaching certification program
The Love Haze is evolving into something more, something bigger…
Healing is NOT being selfish
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EPISODE QUOTES:
I have to release myself from the idea that only positive will come on the other side of taking a leap, of being made for more, of being tired of being in a space.
- Scott Hayes
The biggest, biggest, biggest, biggest lesson that I've learned is that if I'm gonna walk fully into my purpose, I have to stop allowing my benchmark to be my pain.
- Scott Hayes
You're having to relinquish the illusion of control, because none of us really have control the way that we think that we do. But you're having to take your hands off of it. And just trust God, universe, whatever you call the creative power that is, you're just gonna have to trust that creative energy to move you to your next place and know that it will be better.
- Shaté Hayes
RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:
You Are Made For More!, book by Lisa Osteen
Father’s Day, a documentary by Kirk Franklin
Listen to Ambition, song by Wale
Listen to Get Dis Money, song by Slum Village
CHECK IN WITH SCOTT AND SHATÉ:
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