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We used to talk about the hard parts of life. Now, we talk about the healed parts…because that’s where true freedom resides. Join us, and you’ll see that when you save yourself first, you transform your life, and you lead the way for those around you to save themselves, too.


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Ep. 75: Made for more.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 75: We’ve spent the last three years and change having some of the most cathartic, transparent and transformative conversations about stuck places, the hazes, and healing all parts of us. And now it's time for more. We believe what’s next is gonna blow our minds! Join us as we talk through that and two special announcements.

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Ep. 74: Healing our community with Celeste the Therapist.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 74: Here’s one more episode from one of the podcasts we’ve had the pleasure of joining over the past few months. In this episode, we joined forces with Celeste the Therapist and really dug deep on healing the Black community. Traumas, triggers, and even slavery came up on this one. Hard truths and healing revelations, y’all.

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Ep. 73: Real life, love, and everything in between with Keke Chanel.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 73: And another one! Here’s another one of the dope Black podcasts we’ve had the pleasure of joining over the past few months. In this episode, we kick it with KeKe Chanel as we talk about mindset, healing, boundaries, and everything in between. This was such an authentic and transparent conversation about so many of the things that matter most in life. You’re really gonna want to listen to this one all the way through.

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Ep. 72: The origins of our stuck places with Dom L’Amour.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 72: Here’s another one of the dope Black podcasts we’ve had the pleasure of joining over the past few months. In this episode, we’re sharing our conversation with Dom L’Amour where we talked about how the messages we received as kids that may have kept us stuck, communication, and a number of the other unspoken hazes of life.

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Ep. 71: Money talk with Natasha & Damian Carrillo.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 71: We’ve been blessed to be guests on a number of other podcasts this year, and we’re sharing a few of those episodes and reflections. Up first, is our convo with Natasha and Damian Carrillo of Black and Brown Make Green Podcast. We had an honest money convo, and we can’t wait to share it with you!

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Ep. 70: When you feel like giving up…

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 70: Listen y’all, we have wanted to quit podcasting so many times. As recently as this weekend, we seriously entertained letting it go because life has been out here life-ing. But thankfully, we’ve gotten a reframing that’s helped us, and we hope it’ll help y’all too.

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Ep. 69: You can set boundaries at work, too.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 69: We talk a lot about communication and boundaries for our personal lives, and a lot of those same principles can be applied to our professional relationships, too. Self-advocacy is universal, but it's also so personal, y'all. Join us as we unpack that.

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Ep. 68: Nothing is linear because life isn’t.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 68: Life is always out here doing what it wants to do, and there’s nothing we can really do about it. So what could it look like to accept that, to learn how to go with the flow, and grow through it, too? Join us as we process through it.

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Ep. 67: Check yourself before you wreck yourself.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 67: Life has been life-ing, y’all. And when we’re in seasons like this, it’s easier for our emotions to get the best of us. So in this episode, we’re talking through the value of holding onto your emotions even when everything else feels like it’s falling through the cracks.

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Ep. 66: OPP…Other People’s Problems.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 66: Today, we’re coming for all the inherent problem solvers out there. When your loved ones share their problems with you, it’s almost second nature for some of us to jump right into solution-ing. But what does it look like to just listen, to just be a safe space for your loved one to work through their problem on their own? Well, we’re about to eff around and find out.

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Ep. 65: Seeing Black love matters.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 65: Listen, if we hear ONE more person come for #BlackLoveDoc, it’s gon’ be a problem. With the recent news of Ms. Tina Knowles-Lawson’s divorce, commenters have been pretty hard on the show, calling it cursed because five of the couples featured have gone their separate ways. Well, we have plenty to say about that, and we got time today.

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Ep. 64: Who gets the benefit of your self-doubt?

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 64: We’ve all been taught that it’s a good thing to give someone the benefit of the doubt? It essentially means to assume good intent, right? But when it comes to self-doubt, that changes the game. Let’s unpack who benefits when we dim our light and play small.

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Ep. 63: Healing from the inside out with Oriola Esuleke.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 63: In today's episode, we tap into our local community with an amazing conversation with Oriola Esuleke. She’s the owner of The Kindred Healing Center, AHHA Consulting LLC (Aggregated Holistic Healing Alliance), and Principal owner of the first black-owned and operated social media wellness platform, the AHHA Wellness Community. Oriola is a curator of holistic culturally sacred self-healing spaces, so it's only fitting that we talk about what it means to heal from the inside out.

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Ep. 62: Sometimes, parents just don’t understand.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 62: We’re unpacking a topic that was submitted by one of our listeners. We’ve mentioned folks who’ve cut ties with family members because of unhealthy relationships, but we haven’t talked about maintaining a relationship with a parent when y’all just don’t get along. Well, until today, that is.

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Ep. 61: When self-care just isn’t enough.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 61: Listen, I don’t know about y’all, but for us, life has been life-ing lately. And it seems like at every turn, we’re pulled in different directions, faced with disappointment, and juggling really full plates. So join us as we process how to move forward when self-care just isn't enough.

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Ep. 60: What is family, blood or bond?

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 60: We know how complicated relationships can be. On top of the interpersonal connection, we're also contending with triggers, boundaries, expectation setting for how you need to be loved. And how does that all play out with family? ESPECIALLY when it's the family you're trying to build?

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Ep. 59: Whew chile…workplace trauma.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 59: We talk a lot about family dynamics, overcoming interpersonal offenses, and moving past stuck places in general. But what about trauma from work? That’s not something we hear a lot of people talk about, so it’s time to lay it all out on the table. Whew chile...prepare to be triggered.

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Ep. 58: Lopsided relationships collapse.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 58: About reciprocity in relationships. We’ve processed through matching energy, communication, and conflict resolution in other episodes. Now, let's spend a little time unpacking a different approach to unbalanced relationships.

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Ep. 56: Redefining Manhood: Getting support is the real flex.

The Love Haze Podcast - Episode 56: We’re challenging societal norms of manhood. Data shows that many men know that talking openly is an effective way of dealing with their problems, but they keep quiet so they don’t appear weak or unmanly. Well, we’re affirming that getting the support you need is the real flex.

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